So I am a single mother of 1 and I have this friend that is 12yrs older than me (a man) and he is totally in love with me. He has begged me before to be with him and I kept telling him NO! We have gotten in to many fights because he is so persistant of making me his woman. He is in my opinion fat, lazy, perverted and thinks he knows everything. He hasn’t worked in over 20yrs…he sits back and collects money because his family owns a casino on an indian reservation. Yes he owns his own home and he is pretty intelligent but he is totally not my type. He’s perverted and always has some kind of sexual comment to say to me. He’s always arguing with his friends because he always has to have the last word, oh and did I mention he’s always right??? Anyway, I have had some idiots as boyfriends but haven’t we all? So he’s always telling me he’s the best thing that ever walked into my life. He sits at his computer all day (litterally) or on his couch or he’s over at his friends getting drunk. He doesn’t clean his house, he lets dust and dog hair sit forever! He doesn’t shower everyday and complains about his back hurting. Well if he wasn’t so fat and lazy he wouldn’t have that problem!!! Not only that but one day he watched my daughter on a day she had to go to school so I could help my dad and he couldn’t even walk her to school because he’s so lazy!!! So she missed 3 days of school. If his back hurt that bad why doesn’t he get checked out by a doctor? Plus if his back hurt why can he ride his bike, bend over, stand for long periods?? Instead of spending 1,300 on a gold mine and equipment he should use that $$$ to see a doc! He doesn’t even have his license!!! Then he makes comments that if he ever gets a woman she would have to work!!! Are you kidding me!!! He shouldn’t expect anything from anyone he isn’t willing to do himself. So to get down to it, my main issue is him logging into my facebook and other things to check up on me. I used his comp a few times and I made sure I logged out of my accounts before exiting the site. Low and behold he logged into them and addmitted it, like it’s funny! Then he let me borrow one of his computers and when he came over he was checking the history to see where i’ve been. What is it with this guy???? It’s getting to the point where i’m becoming paranoid. Thats not cool. I haven’t been answering his phone calls cause talking to him makes me sick! What do you think???